Renowned family expert Dr. Elizabeth Abolarin urged Christian families to anchor their homes on faith and unity, emphasizing that a triumphant family is one that stands firm against life’s challenges.
Speaking on the Topic:”The Triumphant Family” at the 2024 Sister’s Convention of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) FCT Province 7 in Abuja, Dr. Abolarin acknowledged the societal pressures facing Christian families but affirmed that every family has the grace to overcome and celebrate Jesus’ victory in every situation.
With biblical passages as her foundation, Dr. Abolarin inspired the audience to build resilient and spiritually committed homes, where joy and victory reign supreme. Her message resonated deeply, empowering families to stand strong against life’s trials and emerge triumphant.
Drawing from biblical examples, Dr. Abolarin cited Noah, Abraham, and Sarah as paragons of faith who triumphed over adversity through unwavering obedience to God’s commands. She noted how Noah’s family, despite living in a corrupt and wicked generation, found grace and was delivered from the flood due to their righteousness and obedience.
Addressing the painful issue of childbearing delays, Dr. Abolarin pointed to the stories of Sarah, Hannah, Rachel, and Elizabeth. She underscored the importance of fervent prayer and faithfulness, stating, “The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous person avails much.” She illustrated how these women, through prayer and dedication, eventually received the gift of children despite years of waiting.
Family conflicts, according to Dr. Abolarin, require wisdom and patience to resolve. She recounted the biblical narrative of Abraham and Sarah, who faced tension after Sarah’s maid, Hagar, bore Abraham a child. “God had placed a great responsibility on Abraham, and his graceful response helped manage the situation peacefully,” she noted, emphasizing the need for compassionate and understanding communication between spouses.
Highlighting the destructive nature of sibling rivalry, Dr. Abolarin discussed the preferential treatment given by Isaac and Rebecca to their sons, Esau and Jacob, which led to deep-seated hatred and conflict. She advised parents to raise children in a godly manner, ensuring fairness and imparting values of respect, hard work, and spiritual discipline.
Dr. Abolarin also provided practical steps for building a triumphant family, urging couples to study the Word of God diligently, develop vocational and academic skills, and adhere to biblical principles in marriage. “Building a family implies maintaining the affairs of the family and developing godly conduct among members,” she said, stressing the joint responsibility of both husband and wife in fostering a peaceful, loving, and disciplined home environment.
In conclusion, Dr. Abolarin inspired hope by reiterating that with fervent prayers and faith in God, every Christian family can overcome life’s challenges. “Satan seeks to hinder joy and celebrations in Christian homes by bringing problems, but God’s promises endure. With God, we will always have celebrations of victory,” she proclaimed, leaving the congregation with a renewed sense of purpose and faith.
