Dcns. (Mrs.) Imeh Inoh, the Wife of the Pastor in charge of Everything Joy Zone has hinted on the significance of marital intimacy.
She emphasized that the bedroom, often considered a private sanctuary, plays a crucial role in fostering a strong and loving relationship between spouses.
She gave this hint in her seminar topic:” Bedroom Affairs” at the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) FCT Province 7 Sister’s Convention converned by the wife of the pastor in charge of the Province, Pastor Mrs Moyomola Okemuyiwa on Saturday in Abuja.
“Sex is holy in marriage and must be cherished by a couple as a gift from God,” Mrs. Inoh began, highlighting the divine nature of intimacy in matrimony. She underscored that a satisfying sexual relationship not only provides physical pleasure but also deepens emotional bonds, creating a foundation for enduring intimacy.
Mrs. Inoh stressed the importance of mutual respect and understanding within the intimate sphere of marriage. “Respect your partner’s boundaries and desires, and prioritize their comfort and well-being,” she advised. Quoting scripture, she reminded couples of the biblical mandate to honor and cherish one another, emphasizing that open communication about sexual needs and preferences is vital.
She also provided practical advice on maintaining an inviting and pleasant bedroom environment. “Set the atmosphere right; keep the space neat and clean, and ensure it smells nice by deodorizing it from time to time,” she suggested. Investing in good bedding and lovely lingerie, along with personal hygiene, were highlighted as essential steps in keeping the marital spark alive.
Addressing the dynamics of sexual initiation, Mrs. Inoh encouraged women to take an active role. “Why must it always be the man who initiates sex? You can touch your husband in a way he cannot resist,” she stated, urging women to be proactive in expressing their desires. She stressed that sex should never be used as a tool for negotiation or control within the marriage.
Recognizing the changes that come with childbirth and aging, Mrs. Inoh advised couples to stay physically active and take care of their bodies both externally and internally. She cited 1 Timothy 4:8, which highlights the importance of physical fitness. Additionally, she encouraged a balanced diet and healthy lifestyle, listing foods known to boost sexual health, such as oysters, dark chocolate, nuts, and seeds.
Ultimately, Mrs. Inoh reminded couples that their journey together is not just physical but also spiritual. “Remember that your destination is to reach Jerusalem with joy, so do all you can, and above all, pray!” she concluded, invoking divine assistance for couples striving to maintain a fulfilling and holy marital relationship.
This profound message from Dcns. (Mrs.) Imeh Inoh serves as a timely reminder of the sacredness of marital intimacy and the importance of nurturing it through respect, communication, and a commitment to each other’s well-being. It is a call to couples everywhere to honor their vows and cherish the gift of love bestowed upon them by God.
